Daddy Issues

There are plenty of kooks that ride the train every day. Some, I like to give back stories to (like this one woman who always has big sparkly pocketbooks, wears tights with leg warmers, white ‘80s sneakers, leopard-print skirts and walks bowlegged – go on, make up your own). Others speak their business so loud I know their names, their spouses’ names, their kids’ names, where they work, what they do, where they live, where they’re going on vacation… shit I know so much about these people, I could probably manage their finances without ever speaking to them.

And then there are the people that walk the line in between. They put it all out there, and yet remain a total mystery. In this case, I am referring to a group I like to call: Daddy and Baby Boy.

Daddy is a short, bespectacled man with thinning hair in his fifties. Baby Boy is a thin, slightly androgynous young man in his early twenties. I believe them to be father and son. The reason I believe this, is because Baby Boy has called Daddy “dad”. But I have my doubts. The least of which is that there is no family resemblance.

Baby Boy, well, he exhibits some bizarre behavior. He has a feminine voice. He talks loud. He seems anxious a lot (I think he has Asperger’s). And he sleeps nestled up against Daddy with his head resting on his shoulder.

Now Daddy, he carries Baby Boy’s bags for him from the train, up the stairs to the west concourse of Penn Station until it’s time for them to part. It’s not like Daddy is any bigger or stronger than Baby Boy. They are about the same height. What father is going to be chivalrous and carry his adult son’s belongings when his son is clearly capable of carrying them himself?

It’s highly possible that this is a May-December homosexual romance (alright, maybe May-September; Daddy’s not that old) and they put on a front because they’re not ready to come out. Based on their daily interactions, that would be a lot easier to accept than them being father and son. But when it comes down to it, I think they’re just the weirdest parent/child combo to ride mass transit.

The final point I wish to touch on is the separation anxiety scenario I was a part of the other day. See, Baby Boy has one of those rolling legal briefcase kind of bags. Daddy rolls it from the train, walks it up the stairs, continues walking it until they part, and then he hands it off to Baby Boy (Baby Boy then carries it up another flight of stairs, so I know for a fact he has no problem carrying that thing).

So, the other day, getting off the train, I was stuck behind Daddy and Baby Boy, who were walking slowly with that damn, rolling bag – Daddy up front, Baby Boy trailing right behind. When I cut between them to get ahead of them… holy shit. I might as well have gotten between a mama bear and her cub – that is, if a mama bear threw a hissy fit instead of chewing your face off. Baby Boy with all his weak little might, thrusts himself past me to be close to Daddy again, breathing heavy and grunting the whole time he maneuvered past me. It took all of my might to not burst out laughing right in their faces.

A little part of me lights up every day they ride the train together. Because I never know what fun little episode I’ll get to see.

GUEST COLUMN: Dear Conductors, You Are Not Ryan Seacrest. Or Jim McKay. Or the Dude from Saturday Night Live.

NOTE: Today's column is a guest entry written by a fellow rider of the LIRR.

Subpar service. Overpriced tickets. Constantly delayed trains. Riding the Long Island Fail Road each day is bad enough without the conductors who think they should be sports announcers or radio DJs and regularly subject helpless commuters to their lame squawking and curious pronunciations of towns.

Picture it: A busy peak train in the evening. You've just settled into one of the tiny seats when a Two Ton Tessie plops down next to you and her generous thigh and ass fat oozes over the line onto your side of the seat. Crushed between a fleshy thigh and a filthy window that hasn't been washed since the Pleistocene Era, you somehow manage to fish the buds to your Ipod out of your pocket and pop them in your ears with much difficulty. As you scroll through the music selections searching for a tune that will transport you mentally from this Living Hell, suddenly there's a deep booming from above that sounds like the voice of God. If the voice of God was really fucking annoying. "This is the train to ...(Dramatic pause)... Raaaaaan-KANK-aaa-maaaaaaah! Once again, this is the train to Raaaaaan-KANK-aaa-maaaaaaah!"

Douchebag: It's pronounced Ronkonkoma. There is no need to stretch out each syllable. There is no need to put extra emphasis on certain other syllables. There is no need to take 30 seconds to pronounce the entire word. By this point, since we are trapped between the dirty, bird-poop stained window and some freak who looks like she could appear on the TLC show "I Didn't Know I Was Pregnant," we are captive. And since we are in captivity, what you are doing is torture. Forget waterboarding. The Bush Administration should have simply used LIRR conductors at Gitmo to get detainees to reveal all their secrets.

Lest you think you're safe on another line, such as Babylon, take note: The conductors there love to shout, "Maaaaaaah-saaaah-pequa, pequa, pequa, peeeeeequaaaaah!"

Listen, I get it. You failed at the game of life and are now resigned to wearing fugly polyester pants and clicking a hole puncher day in and day out. Not my problem. So the next time you get in touch with your inner DJ, this will be my response: "Fuuuuuu-uuuuuck-uck-uck-uck-uck yooooooooou." You're not the only one who can come up with annoying pronunciations.

Mystery Meat

It’s a Friday night. It’s raining. There’s a “smoke condition” in one of the East River tunnels (Honestly, there are so many smoke conditions in those tunnels, it would make more sense for them to announce when there’s NOT a smoke condition). So naturally the train is going to have a track change and be two cars short.

Someone needs to explain this to me. Does the rain wash away two cars somehow? Are shorter trains more aerodynamic and more suitable for wet weather use? Why two cars? Why is a train never just one car short?

Anyway, I’m stuck standing a in a vestibule which is quickly filling with lots of people. In front of me is a man of either a middle eastern or African origin, talking quite loudly on his phone in a foreign language, laughing every 20 seconds or so in a boisterous, raspy laugh. Fine. I have headphones. I’ve dealt with worse. Much worse.

We hadn’t even left Penn Station when this guy proceeds to open a plastic shopping bag and produce a plastic take-out container, which has clearly been sitting in a fridge due to the condensation under the lid and the fact that there was no steam coming off the thing. He opens the lid. Holy. Fucking. Shit. This is one of the worst things I’ve ever smelled. My initial reaction was that it must have been curried dog asshole. It had to be. What else can smell that bad? It was a brownish-gray meat of unknown origin with rice, that was coagulated together in thick, cold chunks. And this guy was shoveling it down like it was his last goddamn meal.

For the uninitiated, the LIRR does not have a dinner car.

Not too many scents make me feel nauseous instantaneously. Bad fart in a confined space? Gross. Dog poop on a hot day? Pretty rough. This food? Nasal Armageddon. I couldn’t even breathe through my mouth because I could taste the smell. And this was cold. Imagine if this was heated up. The whole train would have been dead within a matter of minutes. If I wasn’t sardined into my spot, I would have left.

Thankfully the guy finished it quickly (it must have been delicious). He then proceeds to lift the bottom of his polo shirt up to his mouth to use as a napkin, all the while making odd kissy noises and lip-smacking sounds. And I can hear them OVER my music.

These sounds go on, and on, and on, and on. They don’t stop until he takes another phone call, in which he again laughs boisterously every few seconds, and talks at decibel levels that are higher than the music playing directly into my ears.

Finally, the phone call ends. And relative silence.

Smack, smack, smack. Again with the sounds! All the way until he got off at his station, two stops before the end of the line.

I don’t know what I did to deserve this punishment, but I’m sorry. I won’t do it again. Honest.

I Lack the Ability to Perform Two Actions Simultaneously

July 7, 2011. A day that will live in infamy. It was on this day that I witnessed the most childish dickery by a conductor aboard a train. I’ve had conductors wave their hands in my face, snap their fingers at me and knock on the wall behind me to get my attention. But I have never seen one of these pink apes almost bite a rider’s goddamn head off.

I was sitting aboard the 6:53pm train, waiting to leave Penn Station, when I received a Rail Road e-mail alert on my phone saying that there were 30-40 minute delays on the Ronkonkoma branch, due to weather-related signal trouble (how rich). Was there an announcement over the PA about this? Of course not. Because, if you get a e-mail alert about a problem, they won’t tell you on the train (I once got an e-mail alert that the westbound train I was on was being cancelled at Jamaica and they didn’t bother telling anyone over the loudspeaker until we pulled into the station).

So anyway, part of the way through the ride, the asshole that is clearly counting down the days to retirement (and probably a disability package) comes around to collect tickets a second time. He’s getting pissy because he has to ask several times for people to show their tickets, as if he were expecting to announce it once, and everyone would happily display them as he walks by, giving him thumbs up and words of encouragement.

He gets near me, and a gentleman a few seats ahead of me asks in a very polite and friendly manner, “I heard there’s delays. How are we doing on time?” The conductor, very frazzled, replies curtly, “Not good. Not good.” The rider begins to ask the conductor if he can provide further details, and the conductor cuts him off saying, “I don’t know why people won’t show me their tickets. I’m asking for tickets, and I don’t know why it’s so hard…” The rider decided that being nice two times was enough, and starts to ask more firmly how late our train is going to be. The conductor snaps and says, “I don’t know! I have to check tickets! I can’t multitask!”

As the rider, who is a lot bigger and younger than the conductor, starts to talk back, the conductor walks away from him, probably realizing that he was about to get his face mashed into a jelly. Even though he was running away with his tail between his legs, he was still looking for tickets before passing into the next car. I was the last person he came to before the door, and when he looked down at me for my ticket (which was in my wallet, in my pocket), I replied without looking up from my laptop, “Sorry, I can’t multitask.”

“Mom? I got shanked ‘cause I can’t hold my liquor.”

Riding the railroad in the wee hours can be the most uneventful moment of your life, or it can be like that scene in Adventures in Babysitting where Brad gets stabbed in the foot because he fucked with the Lords of Hell.

On the special nights, some of the creepiest creatures known to man descend upon the largest commuter rail in the country and make it a point to ensure you never want to be awake and in public past nine o’ clock ever again.

From the people who drink brown mystery fluids out of mason jars to the wasted guy with no shoes and filthy, hole-riddled socks who shares dieting tips whether you want to hear them or not, you’re in for a night to remember if you run into any of these winners.

However, nothing compares to the combustible result when you combine the volatile mixture of blabbermouth teenagers with people who have spent some time behind bars who just want to sleep.

Ever think you were sure to see someone get stabbed in the neck? If you answered yes, then you were probably riding the train with me late last year.

It was late on a Thursday night last November. I was with my girlfriend and her friend in a six-seater, when a young, homeless-looking fellow plopped down in the four-seater across the aisle from us. It wasn’t long before his shoes were no longer anywhere in sight. Smelly and content, he struck up a one-way conversation with us, sharing diet tips and telling us the dangers of eating processed foods.

After what felt like an eternity, he drifted off to sleep mid-sentence, and my companions quickly followed suit.  It wasn’t until I had no one to talk to that I noticed how loud some drunken teenage girls from the other end of the car were talking and laughing. And it only seemed to get louder. And LOUDER. And LOUDER.

A man with a teardrop tattooed below his eye noticed too, and he decided to stand up and shout at the girls that they should “shut the fuck up,” and that he was “trying to get some goddamn sleep.” He also noted that he had “no problem going back to prison.” After a few more thinly veiled threats and profanities, he once again reminded the “bitches” to “shut their fucking mouths.”

They responded by giggling uncontrollably, not knowing an invitation to the ER when they saw one.

My fellow travelers (and shoeless buddy) slept through the rant, and I was left to be the sole murder witness when the bloodshed went down.

Things eventually quieted down, and the man fell asleep. A good bit of time had passed when I looked up to see two of the girls, holding back laughter, now standing over the sleeping man, waving in his face and talking baby talk to him. They may as well have strapped raw meat to their asses and ran around the Serengeti. What were these assholes thinking?! Well, their guardian angels must have been working overtime, because by some grace of god this guy didn’t wake up and bust a cap their goddamn domes. They quickly realized they were tempting fate a little too hard, so they knocked it off, sat down and shut their traps.

As the ride dwindled down, everyone parted ways. The ex-con woke up and got off, the health guru found his shoes and departed without even saying goodbye, and the girls, after sobering up a bit, quietly left realizing that they had barely survived after stared death in the face, quite literally.

Even though it was uneventful in the end, I couldn’t help but think that if some murderin’ had gone down, I’d have probably turned a blind eye if I weren’t too busy cheering and applauding. Usually I only dream of yelling at the loudmouths on the train. So, sleepy ex-con with the teardrop tattoo, consider yourself my hero.

Good Morning!

The train came in on time this morning. It wasn’t too crowded. People were generally pleasant and kept their voices down. The conductor was polite, not rude like he usually is. We made it in to Penn Station without any delays. We actually got in a little early! It was so nice. I can’t wait to ride home tonight.

Oh wait, what’s today’s date?

Please Replace With a Robot at Earliest Possible Convenience

I have a major problem with the conductors on the Long Island Rail Road. Well, shit, I have a major problem with just about every aspect of the Long Island Rail Road. But I really don’t like these clowns.

They march down the aisle clicking their hole punchers rapidly to get your attention, as if they can’t waste their precious breath to ask you for your ticket. Sometimes they like to make announcements over the PA demanding that you have your tickets out, usually in a surprisingly forceful manner. Oh, I’m sorry sir, is your time so fucking precious that a few seconds of your shift can’t be spent waiting for me to fish my ticket out of my wallet while I’m crammed between a window and an underpaid/overcharged schlub like me? Well the LIRR seems to be in the business of wasting commuters’ time, so I take every opportunity I can to return the favor.

A wise fellow commuter once told me that he never takes his ticket out until the conductor is right there next to him, and he takes his time doing it. So you know what? That’s exactly what I do now, and I suggest that all of you do the same from this point forward. I wouldn’t look these assholes in the eyes to save my life, so I don’t know if it bothers them, but it gives me a small sense of satisfaction. Sometimes I like to hold up a finger as if to say, “Hold on a second,” while I finish reading a line in a magazine, or typing a line on my computer. The worse of a mood I’m in, the longer they wait. If the train is late pulling out of Penn Station and I’m stuck standing because the train is a few cars short, I’m going to “check” every compartment in my bag, every pocket in my pants and jacket, and every compartment in my wallet before I “find” my ticket.

These losers are also complete cowards. When there’s some kind of weather related fuck-up and it’s clear we’re all getting home past our bedtimes, you won’t see a conductor the whole ride home. Where are they then, all high and mighty demanding your ticket? Oh, don’t want to face an angry public because your incompetent organization is ruining thousands of riders’ nights? Scared that someone might take out their frustration on you? Get out here and do your goddamn job, numb nuts. I wonder how long I would keep my job if I hid at work to avoid clients who were unhappy.

If this were feudal Japan, every MTA worker would have committed hari-kari due to the shame they’d brought upon themselves.

But above all else, there’s a rather serious reason I can’t stand these slugs. A staggering percentage of them abuse disability. Read it and weep. Literally. Don’t act like being on your feet all day clicking a hole puncher is so physically taxing that you need monetary compensation for it. Do ticket takers at movie theaters file for disability because they stand all day tearing tickets? No. How about cashiers at grocery stores? Nope. The notion of them getting disability pay for what they do would be laughed at. Yet somehow the MTA has no problem doling out money to these lying slimeballs.

A conductor’s job requirements are pretty well spelled out, so you should know what you’ll be getting yourself into. Get some comfortable shoes and a wrist guard, and stop complaining. Now go conduct yourself to some broken glass and sit on it.